Saturday, June 28, 2008

Part 4

So Sam and I headed up to the high desert with the dogs... Kieffer, Kris, Kevin, and Diego were up there already. 
Sam and I arrived and I walked in the house... OMG you guys I couldn't believe the fuckin mess!!!  I was SO pissed... I turned around and walked out and said to Sam "This isn't going to work" Sam said "I know, just calm down... we'll head down to Home Depot to buy the outdoor furniture... go tell him to clean it up"
So I told him "Kris look, you need to pick this place up. Do the dishes, I can't cook dinner later in this mess" he said "I know Mom, I'm doing the best I can" So I started thinking Ok Kris is coming off Meth, he has no energy.. I will TRY to be more patient... However the more I looked around the more pissed I was getting... There were 3 shot glasses washed and on the counter.. WTF? Did he have someone up here? He was obviously sleeping in OUR room too! On the list of 40 things to do Sam gave him, Kris did 1...
I went off on Kieffer... "Did you guys make that HUGE mess Kieffer?" "No Mom, I knew you were going to flip out... so Kevin, Diego and I cleaned a lot of it up!"  "Are you kidding me?"  "No"
So Sam and I left for Home Depot... We were livid... when we got back... the place was STILL a fuckin mess!
Some dishes had gotten done but that was about it.  Kieffer, Kevin and Diego were busy working away and Kris was playing video games inside...
Sam went in the fridge to get a water and noticed the 12 pack of Becks beer we had just bought last week was gone! What did we tell Kris? Stay out of the liquor and beer, Don't sleep in our bed etc...
Kris didn't even leave one beer for Sam! So Sam said "Kris I told you not to drink the beer?"  "I know" "So go down to the store and buy me another 12 pack Kris!" he had a major attitude about having to do that! WTF?
When Kris got back, he plopped right back down on the couch and started playing video games again...
 
Sam, Kieffer, Diego, Kevin and I were outside sitting down talking about how they needed to go to Home Depot in the morning and get the stuff we bought... When all of a sudden this white F150 drives down our street by our house... All of us turned to stare... I can't tell you when the last time someone drove down our street and went out to the highway... It just never happens because of the way our street goes to the highway... See its dangerous to get on the highway from our street because its so low and if you turn on the highway from there you risk getting in an accident because someone won't have time to see you as they come over the hill.  We don't even go that way...
 
We started trying to figure out who in the hell that was...  when I think it dawned on me and Sam... that must have been Kris' drug dealer friend who kicked in his apartment door last night...  Great...
 
So Sam went inside and told Kris about his friend kicking in the door last night and Sam said I need his name Kris, Tom wants to press charges... Kris said nothing... So Sam walked outside, let him think things over for a minute...
 
to be continued...

3 comments:

eml625 said...

Oh man Kendra, I am so sorry for all this. I think its time for rehab,. Just take him somewhere. He's hit rock bottom for sure.
There is nothing else you can do.

(((((((((HUGS ))))))))))))))))

lanurseprn said...

Wow Kendra I don't know what to say! He's a nightmare! I don't know how you'd get him to tow the line. But, I'm worried about that drug dealer hanging around. They want their money and they will do anything to get it.
Be careful.
Pam xoxox

queeniemart said...

if an addict is near anything drug related, or alcohol ,of course they are going to use it......it is like candy to a kid.....he needs rehab or locked up.....until he is willing to take responsibility, nothing will change.
XO