Friday, June 22, 2007

Ill give ya an easy one first...

 
I am choking on the math.... send smart vibes my way people... Ahhhhhhhh.....
 
Here is a question I have to know...
 
If a buyer needs a front end ratio of 32% and makes $100,000 a year, what is the maximum monthly payment he could afford?
 
a. $1,666
b.$4,320
c.$2,666
d.$3,200
 
Ok whats the answer... do you know?  Take a guess...

Wednesday, June 20, 2007

Won round 1

The Judge asked if I had any intentions of returning Ben to Eric.  Gayle said, "No, not as long as Josh and Andy are there".  The Judge then said, "Since Ben is in the custody of his Mother, he is safe and I don't consider this an emergency.  Ben will remain with his mother and we will discuss this at the Aug. 17 hearing".  Eric is going to blow a gasket!!!  We won Round 1 :o)

Tuesday, June 19, 2007

an email from kim


I will make sure that bastard pays for what he did to my sweet baby. 


Updated: 9:39 p.m. ET May 2, 2005
TALLAHASSEE, Fla. - Spurred by the killing of a 9-year-old girl, Gov. Jeb Bush on Monday signed a law imposing tougher penalties on child molesters and requiring many of those released from prison to wear satellite tracking devices for the rest of their lives.
The measure gives Florida one of the toughest child-sex laws in the nation.
The Jessica Lunsford Act was quickly drafted after Jessica’s death was discovered in March and was pushed through by lawmakers outraged that the man accused of killing her was a registered sex offender. It passed both the Senate and House unanimously.


It establishes a mandatory sentence of 25 years to life behind bars for people convicted of certain sex crimes against children 11 and younger, with lifetime tracking by global positioning satellite technology after they are freed.
Until the new law goes into effect Sept. 1, molesting a child under 12 is punishable in most cases by up to 30 years in prison.

motion - please pray

 

FORMER WIFE’S EMERGENCY MOTION TO SUSPEND

OR TERMINATE VISITATION

Former Wife, KIMBERLY O’KIEFFE HARRIS, n/k/a KIMBERLY O’KIEFFE COMBS, by and through her undersigned counsel, files this her Emergency Motion to Suspend or Terminate Visitation and as grounds therefor states as follows:

1. On January 18, 2007, the Mother filed her Supplemental Petition for Modification of Primary Residential Responsibility and Child Support ("Supplemental Petition"). In Paragraph 19 of that Supplemental Petition, Mother stated:

"19. Over the Christmas Holiday of 2006, the Father’s children from the prior marriage, Andy and Josh came to visit, and the Father has advised the Mother that he was going to have them move back to Florida after the school year. The minor child, Ben, currently does not have his own room in the Father’s home and the Mother fears that Ben would be left alone with Josh. The Father had no issue over the holiday of leaving the child with his older step-brother until it was reported to Father’s counsel as to what was happening." [Emphasis added]

2. The Mother has learned that both of the Father’s children from his first marriage, Joshua and Andy, have returned to live with him, having done so on May 31, 2007. This is contrary to the Father’s recent testimony to this Court.

3. For the past two weeks, Jill DeBoth, the Father’s former wife, has been attempting to contact Kim Harris, n/k/a Kim Combs, Mother herein. Jill DeBoth has most recently provided relevant evidence and information concerning her two sons, Andy and Joshua Harris. Both boys, while at her home, engaged in cruelty to animals. Andy threatened his mother and Josh came at her with a pocket knife. Andy was further bed-wetting until after he moved in with his Mother. He, further, was setting fires.

4. Nick is currently staying at his Mother’s residence and wants to remain with her. He has refused to visit with his Father since January of 2007.

5. Ben, the youngest child of the parties who was sexually molested on more than one occasion by his half-brother, Joshua, a child who the Mother now fears has been routinely spending approximately fifty percent (50%) of his overnights with the Father.

6. TheFather has been sleeping with the minor child, Ben, for well over a six-month period, despite the child having his own room until the current time.

7. The Father now, however, has allowed friends to occupy that room. The Mother, accordingly, fears that there is no safe or appropriate bedroom in which the minor child, can sleep, and be protected from the disarray of the household.

8. The Father never took Joshua for court-ordered counseling the last time he resided with the Father. Since living with his biological mother, Joshua received counseling at church, but not from a professional counselor to deal with his issues of sexual deviancy, which the Mother notes as a problem.

9. There are currently too many unrelated people residing in the Father’s household, which does not accommodate a couple and their seven-year-old daughter, two young adult males, Mr. Harris, and his girlfriend.

10. The Father has allowed Andy to stalk his Former Wife and to entice Ben from the Former Wife’s home. The Mother genuinely fears for her own safety, based on the stepbrother’s cruelty to animals, predisposition for violence, bed-wetting and setting of fires.

11. The Mother genuinely fears that irreparable harm will occur to the minor child, Ben, should he be left in the unsupervised care of the Father.

12. There is a need for immediate intervention and emergency relief to prevent further disruption of the minor child’s life, and to prevent even the opportunity for this child to be sexually and/or physically abused.

13. Until such time as the temporary hearings can be concluded, and the ultimate issues of abuse and neglect can be dealt with appropriately, continued chaos in both Nick and Ben’s lives must be averted.

14. It is dangerous physically and emotionally for the minor child, Ben, to be in the care and custody of his Father.

15. It is in Ben’s best interests that he remain with his Mother so long as Josh remains in the care, custody and control of his Father, and, even when Josh reaches his next birthday and becomes 18, so long as he remains a resident of his Father’s home.

WHEREFORE, the Mother prays that this Court enter an Order:

A. Allowing the minor child, Ben, to stay with his Mother without Father’s interference and with only supervised visitation allowed;

B. Or, in the alternative, only allowing supervised visitation between the minor child, Ben, and his Father at a location outside the confines of the Father’s home, and with no contact with Andy and Josh; and

C. Any other and further relief that this Court deems appropriate.

Prayers please... I hate telling you guys this stuff but I just need ya to listen...


I really hate talking about this stuff because it makes me sick but Kim needs our prayers and help for tomorrow...
 
Here is the sick story in a nutshell...
 
Kim met Eric in Colorado he was a cop that pulled her over and then started hitting in her... He was in the middle of a divorce and had two kids... they started dating Kim got pregnant... suddenly he was off the police force... he said because his ex was harassing him at work but there is a sealed record and no one really knows the story... she believes he was making underage kids "do things"to get out of tickets now..  they moved to Florida... she had the baby [Nick the one here with me for the summer]
 
She caught Eric cheating and she flew here when he was 3 weeks old... He turned it all around on her she was crazy blah blah blah...
 
the oldest step son is really screwed up... I could see that at her wedding but the poor thing had to be the most strangest looking kid I have ever set eyes on... I would never say something like that about a kid but you have to picture a red headed, freckled face kid, with an eye patch and bottle glasses, running nose, ADD, wouldn't listen...
The phrase "Im gonna beat you like a red-headed step child" he could have been the poster child for... God I feel bad even saying that... but you looked at this kid and thought something just ain't right! I swear to all of you he is going to turn into a Jeffrey Dahmer... She caught him beating her dog with plumbers wrench, he is simply cruel to animals...
 
Okay now... fast forward to 4 years ago...  she catches him... oh God I dont even want to tell you this... sodomizing her baby at 6 years old...
 
Are you sick yet?   She freaks... he goes into a military type school by the courts where the drill sergeant says... "this is a learned behavior where did he learn it?" I had my ideas but I mean c'mon who wants to think a husband is capable of doing something like that...
Eric did have an unsatiable sex drive during their marriage... The end was when she found the video tape of him and a hooker...
 
So she fights the courts to keep him away from Josh thinking he is the monster...
Eric [her ex] sends him to his real Mom in Colorado...
 
Who calls Kim last week... and tells her everything Josh has said about what his father did to him...
 
Meanwhile... Josh is back living at Eric's and they are trying to kidnap the 6 year old Ben who Josh did those things too...
 
The emergency hearing is tomorrow...
 
Here are some of her emails... Andy is the other step son
 
Not quiet for long!!!  Ben was talking to Eric and he said, "It doesn't matter if Josh is there or not, you can come.  The Judge didn't say you can't come".   Not that it matters, but I have it on tape.

This is my response and I fully expect the police to be here. 
 
It very much matters whether or not Josh is there!!!  And no, Ben will not be going with you.  I am fully expecting you to show up with the police and am more than ready to deal with the situation.   I have been advised not to let Ben go with you and have every intention of keeping him away from Josh.  Our attorneys can deal with the situation on Monday.  You should know by now the police aren't going to get involved in a custody case.  Especially one which involves a molester and victim!!! 
 
I can't wait to have Dr. Cohen on the phone and have him tell the police whatever he wants to.  Eric needs to be reminded that it's not all about him and that when it comes to kids and pedophiles, the kids / victims will win out.

I'll keep you posted.

Say a prayer that I don't have a breakdown!!!
 
 
 
 
No scene!!!  He pulled up, honked 2x, and left after 5 min.  However, about 10 min. ago Ben came running in hysterical.  Apparently Eric is parked around the corner and Andy is trying to lure him to the car.  Ben's terrified and won't even walk 5 steps to the garage to get me a soda.
 
Andy has been lurking in the bushes for the last two days.  I know he's waiting for Ben to come out.  Eric knows the police aren't going to get involved and also knows I have control of the situation as long as I have Ben.  Once he gets Ben, I'll never get him back, I'll have to wait for the court.  FORGET THAT!!!  I called the police last night, but by the time they got (patrol & K9) here Andy had vanished.  I didn't tell them who it was.  I just said he'd been there the day before also and was obviously scoping out our house.  If nothing else, he knows I saw him and have contacted the police.  Even if just to report "a stranger hanging around".  I will not let Ben outside without me!!!  It sucks for him, but it would be a million times worse if Eric got him.  We're leaving Thurs. afternoon to go camping until Sun. which will be good.  I just pray Eric doesn't find out and follow us.  He's just crazy enough to do that.  If my attorney doesn't do something in the next two days, I'm going to get a restraining order for Ben against Josh and possibly Eric for having Josh in the home.

Gotta run, Ben's awake.  I'll call you later.
 
Please keep her in your prayers... Atleast I know Nick is safe here with me...

Monday, June 18, 2007

Ok... who's with me...

Ok... I am soooo out of shape it is not even funny!  So today for the first time in FOREVER I did laps in the pool while Gi Gi ran outside of the pool probably thinking I am drowning... Which I wasn't... huffing and puffing yes... UGH... I still have the strokes down tho... I was a competitive swimmer growing up... I googled searched my name and a couple of records came up one time but that was 30 years ago people and let me tell you I AM OUTTA SHAPE... however I intend to make it better... Who's with me...  c'mon.... you dont have to have a pool... you can start with lifting cans during commercials or something... C'mon who's with me...?  dontcha wanna be able to be somewhat healthy during your 60's?

Friday, June 15, 2007

I am just sick to my stomach today

I am just sick to my stomach today about this and I have to tell someone...
 
Remember my friend Kim [wedding from hell] that sick son of a bitch she was married too... Has been molesting some of her kids!
 
One of them is here visiting with me right now...
 
He is heaven with riding bikes with the boys...
 
Please pray the courts will not let him have unsupervised visits...
 
Special place in hell for that SOB...