Saturday, June 28, 2008

The end of the story

 
 
Okay I could go on for days typing up the details of that day at the high desert... but here is the shorter version...
Kris wouldn't give us the name of his drug dealer friend, and we told him if his drug dealer friends are more important than his family who is trying to help him "than get the fuck out" Kris said "I knew you were going to kick me out" and he got up in Sam's face like a big tough guy... Sam told him to get out of his face... Kris mouthed off some more...
It was not a good scene... anyway... Kris packed his stuff and left... and we found Kris' old cell phone later... We have the name of the drug dealer and we gave it to the police...  We also called Kris' friend Mike [who is not on Meth] and talked to him... Yup that was the drug dealer guy driving down the street...
 
Kieffer remembered later that Kris woke up at 6:30 in the morning and left he came back about 7:05am...
After putting the whole scene together here is what I believe happened...
 
The drug dealer [Ryan] wanted to get some of his stuff out of Kris' apartment so he shows up at 3am and starts banging on Kris' apartment door [because we found out later from Tom, the door had NOT been kicked in... Robert the other tenant thought it had been because he was banging on it so loudly] finally around 6am Ryan the Drug Dealer gets ahold of Kris and drives up to the high desert and gets the key from Kris... only to find everything in the apartment is cleaned up and gone... So Ryan the DD drives back up to tell Kris its all gone WTF? That is when we see him drive by the house...
 
We also find out from Kieffer... Kris had a brand new Sony laptop... Where in the hell did Kris get that?
 
Whatever I am SO over Kris and his bullshit... you don't even know...
 
He is living at his Mom's in Long Beach... My SIL Tina called me yesterday and said she saw Kris and he looks like Hell... She asked what is up? She said he had two black eyes... I said "Those are from the drugs"  So I told her the whole story... She understood... She said "Enough is enough" I said I know... Remember she had to kick Kris out of Grandma's house and he left it a mess...
 
You can't help someone who won't help themselves... So I don't know when we will see Kris again... Candice's wedding in September... who knows... but I do know this... we are done... once again... drama here, move there...
 
He is 26 years old and needs to grow up...
 
Thanks for listening... love you guys
 
Below is a picture of Kris at Grampa's funeral... Can you tell he is on drugs... I believe that is when we really started to see it... This a week before his accident...
He has black eyes here too... Its the Meth...

5 comments:

candlejmr said...

I found your voicemail earlier and will call you back tomorrow.  Today was just a day from hell and I am beat.  HOWEVER, I am sorry to see that things ended badly with Kris (with a K) yet again.  I cannot even begin to imagine how badly this must affect you and Sam...and the whole family.  Is Candice (with an I...am I making you giggle yet?) looking forward to having him come to the wedding?  Will his absence be a big disappointment to her?  Damn, I hate when people screw things up so badly, but it's like you said....ITS THE DRUGS.  I don't think people CAN think clearly when drugs are involved and that is just so sad.  And it stinks that he's older and you can MAKE him go to rehab.  What the heck do you do???

I am here chicky....call me if you need me.  

((hugs))
Jeanne

imgr8phil said...

Drugs are bad news.  Say nope to dope and ugh to drugs.  Hope you have a good Sunday Miss Kendra.

Phil

lanurseprn said...

He looks very unhealthy there. Not like a young man should look to me. Your other boys look so healthy and strong. This one doesn't look healthy at all. I'm sorry you are going through this. It's hard 'cause you want the best for your kids, but they really have to want to be helped. ESPECIALLY at age 26!!
Wishing you the best with this.
Love ya, Pam xoxox

crayzawhitegirl said...

What a story ....well speaking from some experience of being quite a bad girl growing up .... in my late teens early twenties ....(no drugs ... but alot of partying and being irresponsible ) having my parents get me out of messes etc ... Someday hopefully he will wake up and get it together ... some of us just take longer than others !!

Love you ...

Emma

queeniemart said...

he needs help.....but it will do no good to put your life on the line unless he comes and means he wants off the dope......these addicts are unreal with the lies, the humiliating situations and the destruction they cause. I am going to actually pray for him because if he does not get it together he could end up dead.....i am SO sorry for what you are all going thru. I imagine Sam is beside himself. You all have done so much to try and help.
love you!