Monday, April 14, 2008

I vented and now I feel better... thanks for listening

Hey guys,
Well, we are here at the Hi D house...  I just finished cleaning it... which totally pissed me off because I left it fairly clean and then Kris came up here for a few days... He left 8 bottles of water [mostly empty] on the coffee table... which makes me nuts when he does that! It doesn't matter what he drinks, he cannot for whatever reason throw the empty one away and THEN get another one...  Then he NEVER does throw the others away... he just leaves them there for someone else to do it... ? He left dirty dishes in the sink, plus nasty food that went bad in the fridge...  Nasty stinky garbage he never threw away, just left it here for someone else to do it I guess WTH?
I am not finished yet... He obviously slept in our bed while he was up here because I ALWAYS make our bed before I leave...
it was a mess, sheets coming off the corners, blankets every which way...
You know, if this was a once in a while thing I wouldn't really be that upset but he does it all the time... especially when he comes over to our house... he sleeps on the couch and leaves 4 or 5 empty beer bottles on the coffee table, blankets on the couch, dirty dishes in the sink [if I am lucky they are in the sink] plus he will drink and eat everything... I don't care if he eats or drinks stuff at the house but it is REALLY irritating when I buy a gallon of orange juice and he drinks all of it in one night... he did that last week... the last time it was a gallon of milk! I am not kidding Kris drinks so much liquid I had him tested for diabetes when he was a kid!
Anyway... perfect example of how to be a good houseguest was Candice's fiance Michael... He had to finish up working in Palm Springs for 4 weeks before he started his new job where they live now... So he stayed with us 4 days of the week... Sometimes the only way I knew Mike had slept at our house was because his eye contact cleaner was in the bathroom. That was all... he always folded up his blankets every morning... if he used any dishes at all they were in the sink rinsed or in the dishwasher!  He NEVER drank all the O.J. or milk or ALL of Sam's beer...  or if he did he replaced it the next morning!
You see this is why Pam got upset with him when we were gone... She had to take care of her grandson who got sick and Kris came over... ate ALL her food... [after she gave him 2 bags of home cooked meals for his home] he drank her whole 12 pack of coke [didn't even leave her one can] then he left his bottles of beer lined up on the coffee table, blankets on the couch, dirty dishes everywhere, and my bed a mess [Again he slept in our bed!] She let him know that it wasn't cool to do that...  Then she told him she didn't want him there again when she left town...
Then Kris got drunk and came over and got in her face about it! HELLO, why in the hell didn't he take it like a man and show up with a 12 pack of soda and say I am sorry? 
No he has to drink and drive and say things like "You can't kick me out of my own house"  so she said "Get out of my face Kris, I am calling your father"  "Go ahead call my Dad,
I dont care"  [Like we needed that crap going on with him while we are gone in Texas ya know!]  So Sam called and talked to Kris...  "Are you drinking Kris" he said no of course but Sam said "Well Kris I know you are because your slurring your words... and you just need to stay away from the house Kris until we get back" "I knew you'd take your cousin's side" CLICK
We are sooo tired of his getting angry when things don't go his way... I am not even kidding
I haven't even gone into the stuff on the outside of the house that is a disaster he left... Sam, Kameron and Kieffer are dealing with that and building the wall to the extra room off the garage...
Sam didn't call Kris to come make some extra money to do this room... He said he just didn't want to deal with Kris and his 'issues'... 
Anyway.. thanks for listening... I needed to vent...  now I feel much better...
 

6 comments:

candlejmr said...

Ahhhhhh, these kids.....drive us nuts......It's so freaking hard being a mom....and kids are such slobs!  Maybe when he has his own place and no one cleans up after him...maybe THEN he will be a little neater and pick up his water bottles??  (Kate does the same thing...she has about 10 of them in her room right now!!!! GRRRRRR....)

I'm so sorry I missed your call!  I was in a meeting.  I am going to call you back before I leave for Boston on Thursday morning!

((hugs))
Jeanne

voliball4me said...

Aww... I read it to michael and it made him smile. Eventually, I should pick up on his good habits??? Right???? They have to rub off somehow, his motivation to organize the house, cleaning,  cooking, washing the cars- wow Im just exhausted thinking about it. Im very lucky - Hes a great guy - Just like dad. Hmmm so I guess  that would mean your lucky too mom! heehee LOVE YOU

eml625 said...

Some kids are like this, my son, isnt, but my daughter? You can tell she's home because she leaves a trail of her things from the door to her bedroom....UGH! Makes me crazy, stuff everywhere.
So, I'm sending her to Aunt Kendras house !! LOL
hugs,
E.

ktchu9 said...

A hello just leave me 1!! thats all just 1!  then it wouldn't have been a thing....yanno!!!  i still love you Kris, and guess what? i am your cousin too, haha.....oh well................hey i do know the feeling Kendra.........also wanted to know if your going to be there this coming w/e?........ i have my little man Blake is going to stay with me, bcuz my son Allen is racing in Las Vegas, and my son in law Troy is on the pit crew..............must be nice...........i get to dog sit Cali girl there dog meaning Allen's,....... and my grandson..............oh im so lucky to have a family, i truly mean that............what would we do without each other??........................i don't have a clue.........but love all of you!

Pam

lanurseprn said...

That would piss me off to no end! OMG that's showing a total lack of respect for other peoples property! I wouldn't allow him back...but that's just me. I know it's hard.
You can vent ANYTIME!! I'll be here.
Hugs..Pam

queeniemart said...

Kris needs to grow up and realize the world does not owe him shit. These young adults need a wake up call. I am sorry you and your friend have to go thru this with him.
LOVE YOU