Sunday, December 16, 2007

Oh my.... did I say that?

My Sunday...
 
Marta came, she cleaned, she conquered 1/3 of my laundry and she is coming back next Saturday and Sunday... Thank God...  I told you I am the world's worst housekeeper... I understand the concept of cooking and cleaning just not as it applies to me! I am a trophy wife... not a house wife! 
[Thats my story and I am stickin to it] 
 
Grampa is doing a little better... he keeps asking for my husband... [I think because all his daughters are there and he knows his son is not] we are going down there [2 hours away] on Tuesday... Candice drove there last night with Mike and they stayed at my SIL house...  I guess Sam's sister gave Mike a big hug and welcomed him to the family... I like his sister Tina... I can NOT stand his sister Becky... [crack head hooker - literally] she is Collin's bio-Mom, he refuses to even speak to his Mother... she cleans up for a while, acts like a bitch to everyone, acts like nothing ever happened, then she goes back to the streets and drugs and hooking... So we raised Collin for many years [We are Mom and Pop to him] she hates me so much... she was such a bitch to me during Sam's Mothers burial... Becky goes to one of the flower arrangements and takes a rose for everyone... then she went down the line of seats and gave everyone a rose to put on the casket except me! Sam's sister Tina handed me her rose... Sam gave me his rose... Then when all the seats were taken, she comes up to me like MOVE I wanna sit next to my brother and sister... so I stand up Sam's sister grabbed my hand and said "No Kendra stay here" I said "Tina, its okay" and I walked away [I wasn't going to cause a scene at my MIL's burial...] [Oh ya... the icing on the cake was she was hanging out with Kris's Mom - Sam's ex wife the whole time] Oooo if looks could kill I woulda been dead all day... I just pretended they were not there... [Jeepers ladies how about a little respect for the dead and for a woman who stepped up to the plate to raise your kids because you two dip shits couldn't do it]  I guess I got the last laugh as neither of them were invited to the big Italian dinner afterwards [Tina married an Italian fisherman in San Pedro - HBO did a story on them for Father's Day one year]  Kris had to tell his Mom to take Becky home and she wasnt invited to the dinner either...  That must have ticked her off, plus Kris rode with us for the 2 hour drive to the burial...
 
Anyway, Candice said Aunt Becky is staying at Tina's right now because of Grampa... Candice said she was polite and then ignored her while she was there... I am so looking forward to Grampa's funeral one day... Here we go again...
 
Sam probably won't say a word to his sister Becky... 12 years ago he went into a junk yard and carried Becky out and to the hospital...  He told his Mom that day "Mom, if she goes back to drugs, I am done with her, she is dead to me, I will not go through this shit again, and again, and again"
Guess what ...  she went back again and again and again...
You want to know something weird, she is in a movie, an extra walking by in a junk yard - In the Al Pacino movie HEAT - that was the junk yard she was living in...
 
During Tina's wedding 20 plus years ago... I allowed her to wear my Grandmothers pearl bracelet [before she was doing drugs - or so we thought anyway]  She sold it to a drug dealer and has NEVER once apologized for it... See that is the way Becky operates - She never says Sorry, never admits she hurt anyone, and acts like she owns the place, when your around her... She acts like a Queen Bee.... being a know it all...
 
Anyway... I am not looking forward to running into Becky at Grampa's on Tuesday... but if I do...
I have class, more class in my little finger than she could dream of having... 
I will say hello and go about my business
 
Either that or I'm gonna kill the bitch ina choke hold while banging her head against the floor...
 
Oh my.... did I say that?

7 comments:

imgr8phil said...

I hope this Becky doesn't walk off with some of Granpa's stuff.  Good for you, I want to see that, the Trophy Wife choking the Crack ho!  LOL

Phil

nay0114 said...

IF I was there I'd be helping you out. Yes you are way above all that crap. I hate people who don't have respect for others. This is Grampa's time LORD grow up already. WOW Marta didn't pass out at the mountains of laundry. You guys are gonna have a whole new wardrobe when she gets done. LOL.
Take care and Hugs, Chrissie

nay0114 said...

I meant to tell you you sound just like my oldest sister. She does laundry one day a month. I asked her HOW do you manage doing that. She said I just keep buying clothes and towels, etc and you don't have to do anything for a month. Actually, she has enough stuff to last longer than a month, but usually when I visit I do the laundry because I can't stand it. It bothers me and I don't mind. I hate other things more than doing laundry.
Take care and Hugs, Chrissie

queeniemart said...

since it it the Christmas season, i say take that POS outside and knock her front teeth out. Screw being nice and having class.....she stole your grandma's necklace....and is a hooker and a crack head and did not raise her kids. God, she sounds like Rick's sister. Thank God for Marta too!
LOVE, lisa

eml625 said...

This calls for drastic measure. You want me to send some Uncles out there?
You know, Uncle Rocco, Uncle Billy, and the cousins, Vito, Joey, Anthony ?
We can settle it the easy way or  OUR WAY !

Love you babe, for being the stronger one in the family.
Ellen

frankandmary said...

Oh, now you make me all emotional with Sam's Dad asking for him.  I am always afraid I will not be there just at a moment my Dad really wants or needs me. I'm glad you are going. At least his whole family has this precious time to be there for him. I have a big mouth, but like Sam, at a time like this I probably wouldn't say anything either, maybe much later I'd get her though ;-0. ~Mary

kdsdd171 said...

Hey I'll be your back up...Ben there done that with family...
And by the way I have seen the LAUNDRY PILES..... hey i even stepped over them before.....LOL
lOVE YA kENDARA.... CALL IF YOU NEED HELP..... I'LL BACK YA ANYDAY!!!!!!