we'll see

I am headed to the Lake for a week....  Me, Sam, Kameron, Kieffer, Joe, [kieffer's friend,] and Nick... he goes home August 5th...

So I will not be online but thinking of all of you...

Kameron... well... we shall see... last night I woke up at 11:30pm [I go to bed at 10pm] and he was gone...

I called him and told him to get his ass home... he is not running the streets... "I am at my girlfriends house... I wont see her for a week"  "I dont care...you just spent 10 days with her you should be good"

Teenagers - tired of being harrassed by your stupid parents... quick move out, get a job, while you still know everything...

Big Hugs...

Love you guys...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Kameron is home

He never came home last night so I left him this message today...

"Once again  everyone and everything else is more important than your family and racing... I told you we need help... You never come home... whatever Kameron... click"

I havent seen him yet... Sam is having a long talk with him as I type...

Ill let you know whats up later

8:26pm

No Kameron

steam is billowing out my ears at the moment...

Ok I am getting ticked... so you'all gotta hear about it ok...

 

3 days ago Kameron calls Sam... "I'm sorry... I got off track... I miss working out and Im ready to commit to everything"  Blah Blah Blah...

that was the condenced 1 hour phone call okay...  "I'm coming home Friday and i will be at the Gym to train Friday at 9am" [Chris his trainer has him for 30 minutes then Kieffer for 30]

 

So Kieffer and I show up at the Gym [I work out with my trainer Eric at 9:30am-10am but I do cardio for 30 minutes before then Kieffer and I are done at the same time]

 

Kameron NEVER shows up...

 

Its now 5:12pm no Kameron... so I call him...

 

"Are you coming home today?"

"Yah"

"When?"

"I just back into town from San Diego I have to pack up my stuff"

"We are getting ready to go to the Lake"

"When?" surprised

"Monday... but we need help getting stuff ready"

"When are we coming back" sounds like he has plans

"What does it matter?"

"You dont know when we are coming back?"

"I dont know 4 -5 days... why?"

 

anyway... I would like to call him back and say "You know what Kameron... once again everyone and everything else is more important than your family and your goals... just stay where you are... I dont feel like playing this game anymore"

 

I think Sam is going to say the same thing when he gets here... with every ticking moment he is getting more and more ticked

 

WTH?

try it this way then

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I took my state exam this morning... whew I was nervous... Yesterday I took Kieffer and 2 friends to Starwest MX track to practice [Normally Kameron drives on Tuesdays but with him being gone... I did it]  I had a lot of fun singing songs and being stupid on the ride there and back...

There is this new song out that reminds me of the old song that goes "If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife

Wait let me see if i can find both versions for you....

except for that bank robbery a few years back...

I have to tell you the story about Mr. Good Sport Not So GOOD sport this weekend...

 

This weekend was the final round of the Yamaha Dealer Series...

Kieffer took a 1st/1st in one of his races and a 3rd/4th in his other...

So he podiumed in one of them for a 3rd overall in the series... Are you with me so far?  They take all the series finishes and then you get a series overall trophy...

 

So at the end of the day they have a BIG awards ceremony for the overall series finishes...

 

As we are walking to the ceremony Mr. Good Sport shakes Kieffers hand and says "Good Job" of course Mr. good Sport won the series...

I had noticed earlier MGS's Dad was drinking a Coors Light at 8 in the morning... well by now at 5pm he is so drunk he can hardly make complete sentences...

Sam says "good job on the starts, you holeshot almost all of them"

MGS's Dad says "Ya he did all but 1"

Then the people who are in the pitts next to Mr. GS yells "Cheater Bike..."coughs and names an after market parts company...

We just walk away pretending not to hear it... we had our suspicions all along but whatever...

When we are up at the ceremony... the Dad walks over to thge snack bar and orders another beer... This guy at the bar says something to the Dad like "I hope your going to bump him to the next level now... he has been sandbagging for 6 months" [sandbagging is staying in a lower level to get wins] MR. NSG's Dad says "What do you mean he has only had that bike for 6 months"  the guy says "Whatever I know you were racing up at Comp 395 6 months ago in the same class sandbagging"

 

Whoa... I was shocked at all the negative vibes people were throwing at them... Mr. NSG was hanging with me and Sam... I think he was really embarrassed his Dad was so drunk and all the stuff people were saying...

 

I would never want to be in that position ... reputation is everything in racing MX... Everyone knows everyone... get caught racing a cheater bike and everyone will think you are always racing a cheater bike...

 

One time at Nationals, this one kid got protested... [If you want to protest a kids bike you have to put up $500... they break down the bike if its not a cheater bike then they get to keep the $500... if it is... then they are out of the race and you can keep your $500 so you better be pretty sure it is one]

 

but for the rest of that kids time racing that is all anyone is going to remember...  Yikes I would want to die...

 

I think it sends the wrong message to your kid... "Hey son, I dont think your good enough so I am going to pay to make the bike faster... then you will win"  WTH?

 

Anyway...Kieffer is bumping to the Novice class next race... we call it the Nervous class... its pretty scary ... they bang bars... kinda like going from flag football to full contact...Mr. NGS is gonna freak... and he better get that reputation cleaned up before hand too...

This class separates the men from the boys...

 

Well I gotta go get ready to head down to our local police station... I have a LIVE SCAN fingerprint appointment for my Real Estate Exam in the morning... I guess you cant be a criminal and sell real estate... damn hope all my felonies dont come up... [that was a joke... I have never been arrested...]

 

Well except for that bank robbery a few years back... [that was a joke too]

 

Oh and Kieffer has another behind the wheel driving lesson this morning too

I told the guy "See if you cant correct that hurry up and stop problem he has before my brakes are shot"

 

We'll see...

ballroom dancing anyone?

I just passed my Real Estate Principles course but I have to pass the State Exam on Wednesday... Ahhhhhh.... My brain is fried... my body is recovering though...

I told Eric [trainer]... "I wonder if your ears were burning all weekend because I was cussing your name... Dont do that again!"

It worked because he took it easy on me today...  Kieffer just shook his head at me...

I dont care... I dont ever want to be that sore again... 

 

Kameron called Kieffer last night and Kam said he was going to call Dad today...  Its 5:16pm and that hasn't happened yet...

He ran into his trainer [Chris] at the mall [Chris works at the vitamin store]

Chris asked Kameron whats up?  Kameron said he was going to get a job and get an apartment... he is living at his girlfriends house right now...

 

I do NOT care for the new girlfriend... She is SO emotionally immature but I guess Kameron is also...   birds of a feather... and so on... 

 

Anyway... I have to go do laundry... I have been studying my ass off and neglecting EVERYTHING else...

 

BTW - Kieffer is giving Kameron 2 weeks and then he is moving in his room ;)

"Cool can I have Kieffer's room?" J/K

We already have 2 of the 4 bedrooms upstairs anyway... Our Master opens up with double doors to one of the bedrooms... and we use it for an office... my side and his side...

I dont think I could ever get use to a small bedroom again after having this Master bedroom... when I was shown the house the Realtor said "Ballroom dancing anyone"  [she was exagerating of course but it is a big bedroom tho]

 

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Why he made teenagers...

Yesterday and this morning this place was like a morgue... I swear... everyone in deep thought... I thought Sam was angry with me...  [I pulled the meet him at the door with everything going wrong with Kameron ...totally wrong thing to do but I was hot]

This has been going on for awhile... about 2 months...

More examples of his laziness and lack of respect for others in the house is making Kieffer do everything...

We tell him to do something and he yells "Kieffer"

I realized I was asking Kieffer to do more only because I could count on him to do it...

Sunday at the track... Kameron is sleeping in the back of the excursion while Kieffer unloads all the bikes etc...

bottom line for me yesterday...

I said "Kameron I know you are Mr. Anti Drug... but you know what... I think you must be doing drugs because I dont know who the hell you are anymore... So... lets go get you drug tested"

"Oh really... lets see what Dad says then I will" either he thought I wouldn't tell Dad... or Dad would believe his bullshit... who knows where his thought process went...

So I waited for Sam on the stairs yesterday... Sam came home...

Whammo... we talk in the office...

Sam talks to Kameron in the garage... Kameron starts screaming and yelling... and then poof he is gone...

You do the math... Hhhhhmmmmm....

Sam is over the shock and seriously angry with him now...

I have calmed down...

I think God created teenagers so we could let them go...

Send prayers ...

My heart hurts today...

I have to make this quick because I have to go work out... but my heart is truly broken this morning...

Kameron moved out last night... saying he is never coming back...

 

You know I think Sam and I are pretty good parents... I wish I could come back as one of my kids... I wish I had parents like we are... 

 

We give 110% to the kids and all we ask for back is respect and help around the house...

Let me ask you this...  All Kameron has had to do is train and workout for racing... he is 19 years old...  he wanted to go back to racing... I didn't really want them to go back... I dont want to go through watching my kids get hurt anymore... Kieffer's last injury did me in... I mean the one before the broken leg in football... the broken arm and leg one...  The osteomyalitis that still hasn't healed in his arm... 

Anyway... worst thing I ever did was take them out of racing... I know you will find that hard to believe but you have to understand when you are a racing family... there is no time for girlfriends, or going to parties on weekends... you are not home... well take Kameron [popular football player]

the girls, the other players, Senior Year and well... you have receipe for "everything else is more important than my family" 

 

He gained weight over the year he has been off from High School... 30 lbs,[hence the trainer the boys go to 3 days a week], he had hoped to go back to racing and be at the same level he left... no such luck... but his brother Kieffer now over his fear of getting hurt has been bringing home the trophies left and right... 

Kameron had become lazy.. very very lazy... for example... at the dinner table after dinner... Kameron would eat slowly [his special food Sam would make for him... fish for weight loss!!!] then he would sit there till every dish was cleared... this was getting so bad... he would ignore me when I say get up and help!

Yesterday, him and I were suppose to go do cardio at the gym together... I try waking him up 4 times... I am sitting on the stairs waiting for his lazy ass to get up at 1:30pm... Sam is in Newport, the Truck was in the shop [$900 later] so I asked his old girlfriend Rachel to take us [She works in our office and comes on Tuesdays to help me around the house]

"I cant be seen in Rachels car, my girlfriend will get mad"

Ok... so I call the shop... truck is done... I have Rachel take me and I pick up the truck... come back home...

Honk.... Honk Honk... Honk Honk Honk.... nothing

Call Kameron... "Im waiting......"

wait.... wait.... wait....

Kameron comes out.... walks over to a car with 2 girls in it [not his girlfriend]

talks to them... plays with the dog...

Im waiting..... waiting.....

getting pissed....

Gets in the truck...

1/2 way to the Gym

"I forgot my key and earphones"

steam is now billowing out of my ears...

Goes inside and gets them....

 

[This is after his father went OFF on him about this kind of stuff on Monday]

 

"You know what Kameron... I dont GET you want to race... I really GOT when you wanted to play football.... You couldn't even finish your 2nd race on Sunday... Your result sheet has a slew of DNF's... [did not finish]... if you want this... you have to work harder at it..."

 

Long story longer... he blew up at me ... when we got to the Gym... he bailed

"Ill walk home that will be my cardio for the day"

 

Ok that took 2 hours for a 30 minute walk!  Can you say... I wanted to go do something else?

 

gotta go to the Gym more later...

 

Say a prayer my son gets his head on straight soon...

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Mr. Not So Good Sport and Mr. Badass

 

Remember I told you the story of Mr. Good Sport, Mr. Not So Good Sport when Im losing a few weeks ago?

 

[roosting Kieffer after a race etc...]

 

Well, he was racing this weekend... and during practice... Mr. Not so Good Sport went down by a puddle, and with Kieffer right behind him. There was a guy in-between them and he got stuck in the puddle... Kieffer not wanting to get stuck in the puddle gasses it, spraying mudd all over Mr. Good Sport... after practice Kieffer walked over "Hey I m really sorry about that" and then we let him use our hose and sprayer to get cleaned off...

I dont know why I told you about that because it has nothing to do with the other stuff... anyway...

 

Race One Mr. Not so Good Sport comes in 2nd, Kieffer comes in 3rd... but I decide to watch him ride into his pits from the grandstands...

 

For 2nd place Mr. Not So Good Sport, slams his bike against his Dad's truck, then throws his googles, throws his gloves into the back of the truck and then throws his helmet so hard it bounces and hits the back window of his Dad's truck.. [not breaking the window]

 

I want SO badly to walk up to their pits and ask if has sponsors... then ask if they have ever witnessed his hissy fits...

 

but I keep my mouth shut and thank my lucky stars my boys do not do this...

 

[If they did I swear we would NOT return to the track for a VERY LONG TIME... because in my opinion... if you can NOT respect anyone or anything in the field of competition... you do not belong in competition.... you belong in the classroom of emotionally growing up... I mean c'mon... what does Mr. NSGS do when he grows up and losses a big account to a competitor?  Throw his briefcase into his car and make excuses?]

 

Anyway... 2nd race Kieffer took a 2nd again but it was a 1st overall because the guy who took 1st, took a 14th in the first moto...

 

[for the weekend total Kieffer brought home two 1st places, one- 2nd place and $125 in Yamabucks..]

 

Now I have to tell you about another kid who makes Mr. Not So Good Sport look like a saint... or... this will be him in a few years... after honing his bad sportsman like conduct...

 

This is a 450cc Intermediate Racer... [Kameron's class]... there are so many they have to split them into 2 gates...

 

So two weeks ago,  Kameron was 1st gate and Mr. Badass was 2nd gate...

2 turns from the finish... Kameron was in last place in his class because he went down... but he was back up and haulin...  The checkered flag is out and Mr. Badass yells from behind for Kameron to move over... Kameron didn't move over... they were two turns from the finish and getting ahead of Kameron didn't make a difference in positions to him...

 

After the checkered flag... the kid races up to Kameron... calling him all kinds of names... Kameron ignores him... then the kid acts like he is jacking off with his hand...stops and roosts the hell out of Kam in front of everyone.. [spun his back tire till dirt went all over his bike and him] and that was NOT cool to do... so Kameron takes off after him

"Hey you want a piece of me... you got a problem?" the guy blasts back to his pit area needing the posse behind his actions obviously... Kameron chases him down the main area then the kid pulls down his lane and Kameron turned around and went back to our pits...

I can NOT stand little shits like that...  I'm sorry but I can't... 

So... now... lets fast forward to this week shall we...

This Mr. Badass... falls in race 1... because he is now out of the race...he waits on the sideline until everyone comes back around... then he jumps in with the leaders to screw with them and make his famous hand jerking motion on the track to the other racers while racing... this piece of work is a class act I gotta tell you...

 

I did a little research and who is one of his sponsors... ONEAL racing gear...

A company we have been with since 1998... We have an A ride with them... meaning we pay below dealer... we are a very respected family with them...

 

Ok now... do I say anything or should I just let him self destruct on his own?

I have a thing about protesting... Everytime I have ever protested something weird happens to our team...  I am a little nervous about it...

 

We really do have great families in our sport... I dont know why I choose to tell ya about the bad ones...

 

I'll tell ya about the good ones next... oh and my other visit with Betty this weekend..

8 hours at the courthouse

and they denied Kim a temporary restraining order against that SOB...

Our judicial system at work.... unbelievable....

Police came to my house last night...

 That Jackass sent the police to my house last night as a suddenly concerned parent... "Is he healthy" give me a break... He's been here 3 weeks... and he hasn't seen Nick since January when he ran away from his house saying "He knows what he did" but he won't say what that means...

Sick son of a bitch...

 

I know there is a special place for him.... in Hell

 

I am off to my first work out with a trainer...

Never been in a gym in my life...

 

Kim needs prayers...

Eric [her sicko ex hubby] and his older son keep driving around Kim's house trying to kidnap Ben her baby [7 years old]...

Send some loving vibes and well wishes her way... She is making a stalking police report right now...

Thank you... I love you guys

 

I have one word for you...

 

 

Pasties... yup pasties...  some girls dont want to get arrested for flashing at the London Bridge Channel [the bridge bought from England  in 1967 by Lake Havasu City  and then put back together  to go over the channel to the island]  ok so where was I... ahhh yes pasties... so if you have the exhibitionist urge in Lake Havasu...

They are all the rage... no top... just pasties... [not where I stay tho... you have to travel up the Lake for that show... and come on a Saturday before 4th of July... Oh ya don't forget the beer bong...] 

 

I wasn't doing any of that... I was just watching from a pontoon boat because some friends of ours were there... they just bought the pontoon boat and we were out on the maiden voyage...

 

Oh but do not worry... it could be on TV... because the cops were filming... so look for it on your favorite channel... O O O.... guess who else was at my place tho...  The place I stay at restaurant... anyone... anyone... guess?

 

Ok Ill tell ya anyway...  the Mom's and friends from the show "Real Stories of the Orange County Housewives" and they are filming again...

 

Anybody seen that show? Well, anyway... Newport Beach House is in Orange County but they live in the Cota de Casa part of town... Very nice woman anyway...

 

Oh... the place had to kick out 3 parties of people staying there yesterday the Rangers were there and everything...  More on that later...

 

Full Moon 117 degrees... Hmmm recipe for hot emotions...

 

 

"Lets blow this clam bake"...

I'm back from Havasu... miss me...

 

Thursday Kieffer says... "Lets go to Lake Havasu"

I say "Ok I have to meet the air conditioner guy anyway...We'll come back the next day" One of our air conditioners is out there... 3 hour trip...

 

Kameron talks Kieffer's friend out of going "Nah it will be lame our boats not even there"

 

I LOVE doing spontanous stuff like that... Sam hates it [Eagle Scout has to have everything planned]

 

So Kieffer and friends bail out... I say "Fine... Nick you wanna go with me?"

Nick says "Ya I ll go with ya"

"Cool... lets blow this clam bake"  [lets go]

 

We leave Thursday at 3pm.... for a round trip... he he just got home today Sunday... wooo Hooo what a blast...

 

oops more later