Tuesday, June 19, 2007

Prayers please... I hate telling you guys this stuff but I just need ya to listen...


I really hate talking about this stuff because it makes me sick but Kim needs our prayers and help for tomorrow...
 
Here is the sick story in a nutshell...
 
Kim met Eric in Colorado he was a cop that pulled her over and then started hitting in her... He was in the middle of a divorce and had two kids... they started dating Kim got pregnant... suddenly he was off the police force... he said because his ex was harassing him at work but there is a sealed record and no one really knows the story... she believes he was making underage kids "do things"to get out of tickets now..  they moved to Florida... she had the baby [Nick the one here with me for the summer]
 
She caught Eric cheating and she flew here when he was 3 weeks old... He turned it all around on her she was crazy blah blah blah...
 
the oldest step son is really screwed up... I could see that at her wedding but the poor thing had to be the most strangest looking kid I have ever set eyes on... I would never say something like that about a kid but you have to picture a red headed, freckled face kid, with an eye patch and bottle glasses, running nose, ADD, wouldn't listen...
The phrase "Im gonna beat you like a red-headed step child" he could have been the poster child for... God I feel bad even saying that... but you looked at this kid and thought something just ain't right! I swear to all of you he is going to turn into a Jeffrey Dahmer... She caught him beating her dog with plumbers wrench, he is simply cruel to animals...
 
Okay now... fast forward to 4 years ago...  she catches him... oh God I dont even want to tell you this... sodomizing her baby at 6 years old...
 
Are you sick yet?   She freaks... he goes into a military type school by the courts where the drill sergeant says... "this is a learned behavior where did he learn it?" I had my ideas but I mean c'mon who wants to think a husband is capable of doing something like that...
Eric did have an unsatiable sex drive during their marriage... The end was when she found the video tape of him and a hooker...
 
So she fights the courts to keep him away from Josh thinking he is the monster...
Eric [her ex] sends him to his real Mom in Colorado...
 
Who calls Kim last week... and tells her everything Josh has said about what his father did to him...
 
Meanwhile... Josh is back living at Eric's and they are trying to kidnap the 6 year old Ben who Josh did those things too...
 
The emergency hearing is tomorrow...
 
Here are some of her emails... Andy is the other step son
 
Not quiet for long!!!  Ben was talking to Eric and he said, "It doesn't matter if Josh is there or not, you can come.  The Judge didn't say you can't come".   Not that it matters, but I have it on tape.

This is my response and I fully expect the police to be here. 
 
It very much matters whether or not Josh is there!!!  And no, Ben will not be going with you.  I am fully expecting you to show up with the police and am more than ready to deal with the situation.   I have been advised not to let Ben go with you and have every intention of keeping him away from Josh.  Our attorneys can deal with the situation on Monday.  You should know by now the police aren't going to get involved in a custody case.  Especially one which involves a molester and victim!!! 
 
I can't wait to have Dr. Cohen on the phone and have him tell the police whatever he wants to.  Eric needs to be reminded that it's not all about him and that when it comes to kids and pedophiles, the kids / victims will win out.

I'll keep you posted.

Say a prayer that I don't have a breakdown!!!
 
 
 
 
No scene!!!  He pulled up, honked 2x, and left after 5 min.  However, about 10 min. ago Ben came running in hysterical.  Apparently Eric is parked around the corner and Andy is trying to lure him to the car.  Ben's terrified and won't even walk 5 steps to the garage to get me a soda.
 
Andy has been lurking in the bushes for the last two days.  I know he's waiting for Ben to come out.  Eric knows the police aren't going to get involved and also knows I have control of the situation as long as I have Ben.  Once he gets Ben, I'll never get him back, I'll have to wait for the court.  FORGET THAT!!!  I called the police last night, but by the time they got (patrol & K9) here Andy had vanished.  I didn't tell them who it was.  I just said he'd been there the day before also and was obviously scoping out our house.  If nothing else, he knows I saw him and have contacted the police.  Even if just to report "a stranger hanging around".  I will not let Ben outside without me!!!  It sucks for him, but it would be a million times worse if Eric got him.  We're leaving Thurs. afternoon to go camping until Sun. which will be good.  I just pray Eric doesn't find out and follow us.  He's just crazy enough to do that.  If my attorney doesn't do something in the next two days, I'm going to get a restraining order for Ben against Josh and possibly Eric for having Josh in the home.

Gotta run, Ben's awake.  I'll call you later.
 
Please keep her in your prayers... Atleast I know Nick is safe here with me...

4 comments:

frankandmary said...

I would love to be supportive, but I cannot really wrap my mind around all of it.  Peace to you & Kim & mostly her chidren.  ~Mary

imgr8phil said...

This whole situation is so sad.  I hope and pray for what is right to happen.  I hope everyone stays strong.  I got your text message today and it put a smile on my face.  Take care. : )

Phil

queeniemart said...

this is so sickening! I am so so so sorry that they are going thru this and thank God for a friend like you!
love,lisa

eml625 said...

OMG Kendra, These poor people. That poor child. I'm glad your involved.
I have to keep reading since you posted more.
hugs,
E.