Forgive me J-land for I have sinned...

 It has been a long time since my last confession...

It has been a week since this happened and I have had to mull it over on the porch swing for a while till I was ready to write about it... 

 

Oh boy... where do I begin?  Okay, lets go back to 4 years ago...

 

4 years ago Kris moved back down here and moved in with Sam's Mom...

I would not let Kris in the house... I was so damn tired of him moving back and forth between our home and his Mother's... Drama there move here, drama here move there... I was sick of it!  The reason Kris had moved back here was he needed to work to pay off his debt to the courts... Seems Kris was busted with Meth...  and had to go to court ordered drug rehab... which he completed but now needed to pay the court fines...

Anyway, after he read a 12 page letter from me... showing him all the shit he had put us through growing up... he was allowed back into the family...

Then Sam's Mom passed away and Kris was still living at her house...[ to save money for an apartment... which he never saved for... then Sam's sisters told him he had to go... Kris left the place a total mess and they were sick of it... understandably so!!  I kept telling him to keep it clean, help them out, so he could stay... he didn't get it as usual...]  because Kris' credit was so bad, Sam cosigned for his apartment... He lived there for 4 years... at first Kris was a perfect tenant... always paid his rent on time... everything was going pretty good till Kris got that DUI a year and a half ago... it has been down hill ever since! As you all know!

Now, fast forward to Kris' accident a couple of months ago...  When we went to the hospital and talked to Kris... he was saying stuff like "I gotta get my life together, I could have died tonight"... The Dr. who was taking care of Kris, took Sam to the side and said "Listen, your son seems like a nice enough kid... you need to keep him away from this girl... Your son was drinking tonight and he has pot and meth in his system... but her levels are off the charts... Your sons are no where near her levels... and I want you to know... witnesses at the scene say your son was driving and the police do not believe he was ejected from the car"  Kris was ejected from the car [you all saw his back...] I have photos of the road rash... He swears up and down he was not driving... I said "Kris they are going to know from the seat positions in the car if you were driving son, so if you were tell us now"  he swore he was not... he was happy they would be able to tell from that! 

Sidebar: Now I do not believe Kris was driving and these are my reasons why... [however Kris could be lying]

 

1. I believe witness's assumed he was driving because it was a male/ female situation. Both were ejected and only he was walking around afterward... She was face down unconscious...

2. This was 2 blocks from Kris' house and the driver blew a stop sign, they hit a dip, fishtailed and thats when they flipped and were ejected...  Kris would know that stop sign was there but she wouldn't living 40 miles away in Beaumont

3. This was a brand new car and I don't believe Kris would be so reckless with someone's brand new car, I believe she would be trying to show off her new fast car...

4. Kris didn't have any bruises on his thighs from the steering wheel... He is 6'3 don't you think he would have bruised his thighs on the way out of the car?

5.  She came over, and wanted to show him her new car... Kris left his house without his shoes, wallet, or cell phone... I believe she wanted to take him for a drive...

 

Anyway, she is permanently brain damaged...  so the police want to talk to Kris about the accident... they left a card on Kris' apartment and we went looking for him and found it a couple of weeks ago...

 

Sam is taking me to breakfast...

 

so I will continue this story later...

 

Trust me this is the tip of the iceberg on the story...